Bill Withers sings a melody "ain't no sunshine when she gone"!
Then exclaims unequivocally that he knows!
To remind himself I suppose..something that should be done more often then not. Keeping in the forefront that hindsight is an ugly thing. But lessons learned are to surrender you forward not in digression back to what has fallen behind..
There is a saying that exclaims " you never miss what you had until it is gone "! I agree to debating the fact that perspectives and perceptions play a pivotal point in the visual of what is normal? What should be and what it is suppose to look like? If that key component is distorted the visual can not present itself as clear or with any sense of clarity...or did I miss something?
Reality is a speculated term of events that display a visual and depending on who's looking and how? Determines the outcome of the comprehension of the influence it Will have!
When you have experienced love and the true reality of it and it takes its last breathe.!!devastation is Not Great enough to be implicated, when describing! It befalls a certain unanticipated mindset....
Most people are seeking what they classify as love and have no blueprint as to what to really seek or even why they should seek it?
You ever been privy to let's say, chocolate!!!? all ya life? And when you get older that has fallen by the way side, as you realize the significance of what the chocolates purpose was & why? Eyes open seeing it was considered the norm! You didn't need to have an expectation of something that you already was receiving.
Another saying " until you have loved an loss"!
You will never know the true meaning of love..
I agree again to debate the fact that you should be appreciative of what you have at all times and value and respect yourself enough to realize that! Another hindsight if you will!
My quam with distortions is simply you miss things that are taken for granted and those that are considered what is supposed to be done!? As if that picture was clear????
I sit on the heavily gated side of hindsight (one of its best students..sigh) because I face a mirror everyday no matter the minimum amount of time spent in front of it..I choose to take Accountability for me at all times. Most are uncomfortable with that..which causes a conflict with me...cause that is not a reality for many and it is sad!
To error intentionally, one should exercise caution and seek the guidance not the goal... Because more often then not the goal always shifts...why? Because the distortion and distraction was allowed to create chaos in the midst of somewhere it didn't belong...( I guess I think different? Shrugs!)
To know beyond a shadow of doubt, to do something, that you know you should be enforcing and endorsing in your life and you don't. Carries a significantly higher ratio of burden then if you had just acted on that informed decision that you chose to be in denial about...(talking to self...sigh)
I can't hold another accountable for something that is my responsibility? ( I never comprehend the significance of that blaming others but OK!??) ( who am I right?) Until you can face self (your self)respectively. You can not face another just as naked!!??*"" hence, why the cover up is real! Again I guess I think different!
Until your focus is right according to your purpose, everything else is just speculation! A learning that will expand your mind once allow yourself to be who you are! I digress!!!!!